The state of marriage in modern America has been a cause of concern for many — roughly half of marriages still end in divorce in this country.

But exactly where are most couples going wrong?

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YouTube vlogger Joseph Solomon takes on this topic in a video titled “Marriage Is Not for You.” He discusses the importance of putting God at the center of this solemn relationship — and the need for sacrificial love as well.

“I’m a traveling singer, poet, speaker, photographer, videographer, and YouTube content creator living on the west side of Chicago,” says Solomon on his YouTube channel. “This is my regular life.”

Check out his inspirational message below:

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