Fans nationwide and so many others have been sharing their heartbreak, grief and condolences on social media after tragedy struck country music star Alan Jackson’s family this past week.
Jackson’s son-in-law — Ben Selecman, 28 and the husband of his oldest daughter, Mattie (both shown above) — passed away after a sudden and tragic accident.
The young husband was merely trying to help another human being who needed an assist — and tragically lost his own life in the process.
Selecman was in Florida, according to reports, and was trying to help a woman onto a boat when he fell and suffered a serious blow to his head.
He was rushed to the hospital and attended to by medical professionals, but ultimately he passed away from “severe traumatic head injuries,” as The Tennessean noted.
Selecman had been working as an assistant district attorney for Davidson County in Nashville, Tennessee.
“He was really a rising star and I’m sick that we lost him, but I’m grateful for every day that he worked for us because he was great,” Glenn Funk, the district attorney, told The Tennessean about the young man.
Following his passing, the Selecman family released a heartfelt obituary that detailed his devotion to God and his deep love for his family.
“Samuel Benton Selecman, age 28, passed away Wednesday, September 12, 2018, at St. Mary’s Medical Center in Palm Beach, Florida, surrounded and beloved by his wife, parents, and close family members,” the obituary noted.
“Born on August 21, 1990, in Knoxville, Tennessee, Ben had as big a heart for God as he did ‘God’s Country,’ his self-ascribed name for the hills of East Tennessee where he grew up.”
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“The town of Farragut was home to Ben, his parents, Mark and Brenda, and his younger brother, Cole, from childhood throughout his undergraduate years at the University of Tennessee,” the obituary continued. “His drive, charisma, and heart for justice sent him to the University of Memphis Cecil C. Humphrey’s School of Law, where he earned his Master’s Degree, Doctor of Jurisprudence. Ben worked as an Assistant District Attorney at the Davidson County DA’s Office from April 2017 until his passing.”
“A committed follower of Christ, Ben lived out the Great Commission with unconditional love for all those he knew, and a humble prayer for those he didn’t.”
It also said, “A man who always put his family first and never met a stranger, Ben had a true disciple’s spirit and a knack for making all those around him feel adored and respected. A lifelong lover of nature and avid hunter and fisherman, Ben cherished God’s creation and found peace and life in the outdoors. An east Tennessee boy through and through, his soul always hummed of classic country music. A committed follower of Christ, Ben lived out the Great Commission with unconditional love for all those he knew, and a humble prayer for those he didn’t.”
“Ben is survived by his wife, Mattie; father and mother, Mark and Brenda; and his brother, Cole (Morgan).”
Watch the young couple’s wedding video below — then see fan comments about the tragedy right below that.
Our hearts are breaking for Alan @OfficialJackson's family ? https://t.co/VFsPRxWZ41
— Taste of Country (@TasteOfCountry) September 13, 2018
My heart breaks for the tragic death of Mattie Jackson’s husband, Ben Selecman. May Gods grace and strength help you thru this horrible time. @OfficialJackson
— Rhonda Forlaw Adkins (@RhondaAdkins) September 13, 2018
Prayers & Condolences For Family Of Alan Jackson https://t.co/LKjrH2TXbw#alanjackson https://t.co/LKjrH2TXbw
— Susan Hanson (@susanihanson) September 14, 2018
This is just awful news. https://t.co/YdE4KdKHA7
— SoundsLikeNashville (@SoundsLikeNash) September 16, 2018
Southern Bride was absolutely heartbroken when we learned of the passing of Ben Selecman, son-in-law of Country Music legend, Alan Jackson. We were extremely honored to share… https://t.co/gBwFAUjGtr
— Southern Bride (@southernbride) September 13, 2018
Saddened by the passing of Davidson County Assistant District Attorney Ben Selecman. I met him when he was an 11u Thunder baseball player years ago and had the pleasure of becoming reacquainted with him professionally last year. He was a great lawyer and an impressive young man.
— ?????? ♥ ★ (@BritniHolland) September 12, 2018
Sending our thoughts and prayers to Alan Jackson and his family.
Kim Carr on Y106.5 https://t.co/5vilai02pJ— Y106.5 (@Y1065) September 13, 2018
General Sessions Court dockets will close at 10:00am Monday September 17 so that the friends and colleagues of ADA Ben Selecman may join his family in celebrating his life. Our deepest condolences to his loved ones. You are in our thoughts.
— Melissa Blackburn (@JudgeBlackburn) September 13, 2018
You are truly in God’s country now, Ben Selecman. May there be endless viewings of Sweet Home Alabama, line dancing, Vol watch parties and a fully stocked bar.
See ya, when I see ya ♥️ https://t.co/2ryJSr5njo— Molly (@MollyKWeisman) September 13, 2018
NASHVILLE (WSMV) – Assistant District Attorney Ben Selecman, who is the son-in-law of country star Alan Jackson, has died from injuries he suffered during a boating accident in Florida. https://t.co/VMAMRUNFOg
— Dolly Loretta Russo (@dolly19631966) September 13, 2018
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